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		<title>Feeling, Healing and Transformation &#8211; What Can We Learn from Pins and Needles?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Oct 2010 22:09:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you ever sit on the floor for too long and your leg went numb? Remember that horrible feeling you got when you stood up? At first, you don&#8217;t even feel your leg and your leg might wobble (or even collapse) underneath you. That happened to me on more than one occasion in India after [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><img class="alignleft" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px;" title="pins and needles" src="http://spiritauthors.com/images/123rf/pins-and-needles-purple-cushion.jpg" alt="" width="270" height="195" /></em>Did you ever sit on the floor for too long and your leg went numb? Remember that horrible feeling you got when you stood up? At first, you don&#8217;t even feel your leg and your leg might wobble (or even collapse) underneath you. That happened to me on more than one occasion in India after having sat on a marble floor for several hours listening to a lecture. I had to get used to the locals laughing at me whenever they saw this western woman in a badly-wrapped sari fall over her own two feet for no apparent reason!</p>
<p>But once you&#8217;ve made it through the wobble, something else starts to happen—the dreaded &#8220;pins and needles&#8221; sensation as the blood starts to flow again in your legs. It feels absolutely horrible at first, and there is an overwhelming urge to sit back down on your leg and make it go &#8220;dead&#8221; again. But we know this is the worst thing we can do. We know the blood has to start flowing again. We know that the &#8220;pins and needles&#8221; is the signal that our leg is returning to its healthy state, where the leg recovers from its numbness, and we are again able to feel it and use it fully and effortlessly. We know it is necessary to feel the wobble and the pain (and maybe even the falling and the humiliation!) before we can move forward.</p>
<p>The interesting thing is, our emotional world works in exactly the same way, but for some reason, many of us do not respond to our emotions the same way we respond to our leg. Let me explain.</p>
<p>Emotions get &#8220;blocked&#8221; within us in exactly the same way the blood in our leg gets block—we &#8220;sit&#8221; on them and do not allow them to flow. And just like our legs, when we sit on our emotions, we go &#8220;numb&#8221;. We become detached and desensitized to our own feelings, as well as to the feelings of others. In extreme cases, we become incapable of connecting at an intimate level with anyone, what to speak of ourselves. Many of us can go on for years—decades—with blocked emotions.</p>
<p>When something shakes us up from our &#8220;numb&#8221; state, it is very similar to what happens when we first stand up on our &#8220;dead&#8221; leg. We wobble. We might even stumble. We have been hiding our emotions from others for so long, that when we start to allow them to be seen, our world starts to rock. People might not recognise or relate to us anymore, and because we fear losing them, we might try to convince ourselves to return to our familiar, stuck, numb place. We might also quite possibly become afraid of what we intuitively know is coming next—the &#8220;pins and needles&#8221;. This is the stage where sensation is returning to us. And just like pins and needles in our legs, it probably doesn&#8217;t feel particularly nice. We might experience an avalanche of confusing emotions like humiliation, shame, grief, anger, blame and fear. And being inexperienced with these emotions, having been cut off from them for so long, we might not know what to do with them or how to process them in a constructive way.</p>
<p>Now, if we were to sit our leg for decades, you can be pretty sure we would render it permanently useless, and it would be unlikely to heal. But the wonderful thing about emotions is that, even those that have been stuck for most of our lives can come back to life—if we can stay with the &#8220;pins and needles&#8221; long enough to allow the &#8220;flow&#8221; to come back into our feelings, without succumbing to the urge to jump back in the box of our numbness.</p>
<p>And just as how the end of the &#8220;pins and needles&#8221; stage restores full sensation and mobility to you leg, making it to the other side of your emotional pins and needles brings you into full sensation, which leads to flow at a heart and soul level. In both the leg and our emotions, feeling is the doorway to healing, and healing is the doorway to transformation.</p>
<p><img class="alignright" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 0px;" title="Luis Angel Diaz" src="http://spiritauthors.com/images/JVPs/Luis-Angel-Diaz-large.jpeg" alt="" width="200" height="200" />And while the above analogy is my own, the essence of this story is the fundamental principle of the book <strong><em><a href="http://www.cellularmemory.org/landing/memory-in-the-cells-prelaunch.html">Memory in the Cells: how to change behavioral patterns and release the pain body</a></em></strong> by my client and good friend Luis Angel Diaz. The book teaches both the theory and the practical methodology of what Luis calls &#8220;Cellular Memory Release&#8221; (CMR), where you learn how to FEEL your emotions at a deep level, not only for the purpose of healing old wounds, but also of transforming them so your life is full of awareness, sensation, aliveness and flow.</p>
<p>As Luis puts it, &#8220;It is about transforming the &#8216;Pain Body&#8217; into the &#8216;Joy Body.&#8217;</p>
<p><strong><em><a href="http://www.cellularmemory.org/landing/memory-in-the-cells-prelaunch.html">Memory in the Cells</a></em></strong><strong> is coming to Amazon at exactly 12:01 AM Pacific THIS TUESDAY October 5th (yes, that&#8217;s TOMORROW, as I write this).</strong> In celebration of the release of his book, dozens of Luis&#8217; friends and colleagues have kindly donated a complete library of personal development gifts that you can download for free, when you buy the book <strong><em><a href="http://www.cellularmemory.org/landing/memory-in-the-cells-prelaunch.html">Memory in the Cells</a> </em></strong>on the day of its launch this week. I&#8217;m also giving away a free download (audio and text) of my mini-eCourse &#8220;Making Friends with the Monsters Under Your Bed.&#8221;</p>
<p><img class="alignleft" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Memory in the Cells by Luis Diaz" src="http://virtualspiritualevents.com/images/launches/memory_in_cells.jpg" alt="" width="175" height="176" />To find out more about the book and the free gifts, and to see a video in which Luis talks about how he came to develop this method to help people learn how to deal with pain, go to: <a href="http://memoryinthecells.com/">http://memoryinthecells.com</a></p>
<p>AND… when you buy the book on Tuesday, Oct 5th, not only will you receive those free gifts, but you will also receive a <strong>special FR*EE 2-part LIVE online class</strong> with Luis himself, where he will take you through the CMR process, step-by-step.</p>
<p>This is not going to be another one of those self-help books that just sits on the shelf, unused. Luis is truly dedicated to sharing the information and practical tools in the book, and this free class is his way of showing that he &#8220;walks his talk.&#8221;</p>
<p>I hope you&#8217;ll join me in celebrating the release of this highly-practical, and truly healing, book by Luis Diaz. To buy the book on Tuesday October 5th, just go to <a href="http://memoryinthecells.com/">http://memoryinthecells.com</a>.</p>
<p>And then, I hope to see you on the fr*ee class a few weeks later.</p>
<p>Warm wishes<br />
Lynn  Serafinn<br />
Author, Transformation Coach, Book Promotions</p>
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<h5>About Lynn Serafinn</h5>
<p><img class="alignleft" style="margin: 10px;" title="Lynn Serafinn" src="http://spiritauthors.com/images/grand_opening/Lynn_Serafinn_150H.jpg" alt="Lynn Serafinn" width="133" height="150" /></p>
<p>Lynn Serafinn is a an award-winning transformation coach, book promotion coach, radio  host and bestselling author of the book <strong><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/075521126X?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=thegaroftheso-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=075521126X">The Garden of the Soul:  lessons from four flowers that unearth the Self</a>.</em></strong> She also works as a  campaign manager for mind-body-spirit authors and has many bestselling book campaigns, including four #1 sellers in 2010 alone. She is also the creator of <strong><a href="http://spiritauthors.com">Spirit Authors</a></strong>, which offers training, coaching,  business-building and inspiration for mind-body-spirit authors, whether  established or aspiring. To contact Lynn for coaching, campaign management or media appearances, please fill in the form at <a href="http://spiritauthors.com/contact">http://spiritauthors.com/contact.</a></p>
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		<title>Moving into the Storm &#8211; from enslavement to freedom</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 21:51:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The following blog post was originally written for Transition Bedford site at http://www.transitionbedford.org. I decided to include it here on my own blog because, although it makes references to working within the Transition Network, the key points are relevant to everyone who wants to understand more about what it means to be free at an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>The following blog post was originally written for Transition Bedford site at <a href="http://www.transitionbedford.org">http://www.transitionbedford.org</a>. I decided to include it here on my own blog because, although it makes references to working within the Transition Network, the key points are relevant to everyone who wants to understand more about what it means to be free at an inner level, and to understand more about why they may not always be creating the impact in the world they desire to create. I welcome your comments and feedback, as I spent  significant amount of time writing it, lol! Hope you enjoy it. &#8211;Lynn</em></strong></p>
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<p><img class="alignleft" title="eye of the storm" src="http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:-BMXn1FUB6y4dM:http://www.allbestwallpapers.com/wallpaper/space/image/eye_of_the_storm,_hurricane_elena,_september_1,_1985.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="113" /></p>
<p>Whether we are aware of it or not, the members of the Initiating Group (IG) at Transition Bedford are now evolving from the “forming” stage into the “storming” stage. Can you feel it? Entering the storm means we are making real progress, even if it seems unclear right now. So, at this important juncture, in hopes of taking us even further into the eye of the storm, I’d like to share some ideas which have been swirling about in my mind ever since my Transition Training in London. It has to do with media, our responsiveness to it, both conscious and unconscious, and our role as leaders in the community. After much reflection, I believe in our work within the Transition network, it is essential that we bear in mind</p>
<p>1. That we as an initiative will need to <strong>understand and address public</strong> <strong>emotions</strong> that may be stirred up by the media in all its forms      (TV, film, radio, newspapers, magazines, books, pop culture, music, advertising,      Internet, social media, etc)</p>
<p>2. That we will also need to become acutely aware of <strong>how WE ourselves are impacted </strong>by      media, whether consciously or unconsciously</p>
<p>3. That we will need to know <strong>how      to protect ourselves</strong> against succumbing to any unconscious unwanted impact,      so we do not become “reactionary machines” instead of creative, resilient      human beings, both individually and collectively.</p>
<p>4. That we will also need to become acutely <strong>aware of our own impact </strong>upon our community as we reach out to      them.</p>
<p>5. That we will also (and most importantly) <strong>understand how to</strong> <strong>avoid</strong> <strong>unintended impact</strong> upon the      community.</p>
<p>It is important to understand that these statements do NOT mean that we, as part of the Transition Network, are not entitled to our emotions. It would be an unreasonable expectation to think that we as humans should never feel angry, overwhelmed, grief-stricken, bitter, hopeless or cynical, especially when we are facing issues of such importance as climate change. Nor is it true that, by being part of a Transition Town initiative, we are expected to become super-humans or non-humans.</p>
<p>In fact, the truth is exactly the opposite.<span id="more-933"></span></p>
<p>We have to <em>become</em> human, pure and simple. And human <em>means</em> to understand emotions and how they impact us, so we can use them for our own expression, rather than feeling used <em>by</em> them. To be human does not mean controlling or suppressing emotions. Rather it means learning how to express them openly so that others also feel safe to express their own emotions in our presence. For in this process, trust is activated. And if our ultimate goal is to create community, trust is the most essential ingredient. Without it, there can be no community. Without community there can be no consensus. And without consensus, there can be no effective transition.</p>
<p>So if trust is the move essential ingredient, what does it mean to “protect ourselves” against unconscious impact? Doesn’t this sound like the opposite of trust? Not at all. Protecting ourselves means to be able to trust our own selves—our instincts, our feelings, our thoughts and our actions. It means knowing with certainty whether our actions are true responses to what is needed, or simply autonomous reactions to our own fears. And when we are able to make this distinction, and be truly confident in our self-trust, we have found the difference between enslavement and freedom.</p>
<p>But that works at an individual level, but what about at a community level? How does a community learn to trust <em>itself</em>? I have spoken with many other TT groups, and the question always comes back to, <em>“How do we convert the unconverted?”</em> In other words, “How do we get one part of the community to <em>trust</em> and believe another part of itself?”</p>
<p>If we ourselves are, consciously or not, enslaved by our own emotional reactions, caught in a web of our own fears, anger and frustrations over the state of the World, we would be hard-pressed to find anyone who would wish to come within 10 paces of our energetic range. And really, why in the world would they? If we flood people only with urgency, they will either swing towards us in a panic, or they will swing away from us in a panic. But if we stand powerfully within our own peacefulness combined with passion, love combined with laughter, optimism combined with sense of ongoing purpose, chances are far greater that people will learn to trust us just enough to listen to the more “urgent” message we might also wish them to hear, so they understand the matter fully. The answer to the question of converting the unconverted therefore is simply this: we will create precisely the energetic reaction in others that we ourselves project. If we wish to bring people into our wonderful vision of the future, we must first and foremost create the energy of that vision within ourselves. But if we are holding only the <em>vision of what we wish to avoid and fear most,</em> it will only drive people away from us. If we TT groups end up frustrated, wondering why we are having so much difficulty expanding their community, the first place to look should be our own emotional state. Within that lies the seeds of the impact we are creating in our community, whether intended or not. Our first responsibility, therefore, is to cultivate our own self-awareness. Without this, no action can take root in any lasting, effective way.</p>
<p>How do we start building this self-awareness? One way to start is simply by observing the energy shifts that media and other influences create both upon the public and upon ourselves. For instance, I notice that since I stopped watching television in Feb 2008, my anxiety about the economy has decreased radically, while many others around me (who watch the news on TV regularly) appear to be more stressed than ever. Of course I am not suggesting that everyone stop watching the News; I am merely noticing the impact. And in this noticing, I have valuable information upon which I can base my decisions for how I wish to communicate with others, and respond to the issues around me.</p>
<p>That is a very simple example, but the deeper we look, the more subtleties we will find and the more aware we will become. And as we become more aware, we become better at standing neutrally within our circumstances without impulsively reacting to them. By observing, we eventually will come to know what needs to be done and when in order to make the system work. With time, we will learn that it is sheer futility to try to nullify negative energy by pushing against it, and that if we do, we are only allowing our own energies to be drained away in the process. For the secret I have learned over the past months is this—the Transition Town movement is not only about creating sustainable energy for our technologies; <em>it is also about creating sustainable energy for our hearts and minds.</em> It is about creating a World and a lifestyle in which we ultimately <em>feel more alive. </em></p>
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<p>And what we might find in our quest for aliveness might surprise us. Falling back on the old “familiar” systems of fund-finding, establishing registered charities and other bureaucratic models may or may not result in breathing life into our community. We may feel these work well for us, or we might choose to toss them out altogether and create entirely new models. In the words of Buckminster Fuller, &#8220;You can never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.&#8221; So the really important question for us now, as we begin to start the process of change together, is this:<em> “How much fear are <span style="text-decoration: underline;">we</span> ourselves holding onto that is preventing us from diving fully into the chaos of true creation?” </em>It is vital that we deeply understand our own self-imposed limitations before we attempt to go out into society and expect it to change.</p>
<p>With regards to taking action, it was emphasised in the TT training, and I agree 100%, that while it is an easy temptation for us in new Initiating Groups to default into &#8220;jumping into action&#8221;, the more important thing is to understand ourselves first. If we jump into action primarily because our anxieties are being triggered, then we are simply reacting as a means to remove or avoid a discomfort. While emotions like anger or fear can stir us into action in the short term<em>, they are not sustainable sources of energy</em>. We risk burnout; and when we do burn out, we will find ourselves at the other extreme of passivity and apathy. When we simply react to stimuli, we get caught in the relentless pendulum swing between passive and aggressive. And we all know that a pendulum just keeps going over the same ground again and again, never really moving anywhere. It’s just like political systems that move continuously between Conservative and Liberal year in and year out. Reaction is not action, because it doesn’t take us anywhere.</p>
<p>To be effective as a Transition Town, we must learn deeply about the inner mechanisms that propel us to act or to react, both as individuals and as a community. It is only via this understanding that we can begin making a real “transition” away from the old paradigm and into the new. Our TT trainers stressed this over and over again and I would be remiss, especially as a life coach, if I didn&#8217;t hold the stake for this vital point.</p>
<p>And while I agree that “talk is cheap” if not backed by action and commitment, it is also not enough for us to jump into action, even if these actions bring about some degree of good. Everything we do inevitably creates an impact both in our local communities and on our Planet. Let us choose our impact carefully and not be satisfied merely with an endless stream of reactions. Let us create a legacy that results in the long-term transformation we envision.</p>
<p>So, as we begin our journey together into the eye of the storm, I encourage us to take time and care to really &#8220;land&#8221; this concept. If we want to make lasting change—and I know we do—we must first learn to operate within a new paradigm wherein we no longer simply react to stimuli, but we understand our own inner workings, and create vibrant solutions to the problems we may face. Ironically, to do that, in the beginning it will actually be necessary to take our focus away from the issues of climate change and peak oil for a little while, and to look first at who we are as human beings and <em>what intrinsically joins us together beyond the “crisis”.</em> This is not merely my own belief. Our trainers Nick Osborne and May East made expressed similar beliefs during our TT training. I don’t think I would be here at Transition Bedford if this were not the underlying ethos of the Transition Network.</p>
<p><img class="alignright" title="storm" src="http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:-JQthyEnrWdYUM:http://static.howstuffworks.com/gif/eye-of-tornado-1.jpg" alt="" width="124" height="97" />I know some of my points may sound like “waffle” to some people. I know it might even create impatience, restlessness and irritability. And that is ok. All of that is symptomatic of the “storming” and “chaos” (to use M Scott Peck’s term) in the inevitable evolution of Transition Bedford becoming an actual community. I have faith in the process. I hope you do too.</p>
<p>Earth ~ Humanity ~ Connection</p>
<p>Warm wishes,</p>
<p>Lynn Serafinn, MAED, CPCC<br />
Author, Transformation Coach, Trainer and Speaker<em><br />
&#8220;Turning up the volume of the music in your heart!&#8221;</em></p>
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		<title>Continuity &#8211; The Dance of Change within the Changeless</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 00:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lynn Serafinn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Continuity is that state we reach where we are able to witness all of Creation as a great system of continual flow and change without beginning or end. Existence is both always the same, and always changing, simultaneously. When we witness this, and feel this at our core, we come to realise that Reality is comprised of a single experience of Divine Continuity, which has infinite possibilities of expression. These possibilities flow like the colours of a kaleidoscope as we turn the wheel around and around. As these patterns are ever-changing, we cannot say there is ever truly a specific pattern, as there is no way to “freeze” them in time. When we release the need to hold on to a particular pattern, we begin to step into the awestruck feeling of Divine Continuity, and come to enjoy every moment as it unfolds before us.]]></description>
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<strong>Meditation 77: Continuity</strong></p>
<p>Continuity is a sense of begininglessness and endlessness that comes from feeling connected to Existence itself. In the Divine sense, Continuity does not refer to the act of “sticking with things” for a long period of time. In fact, Continuity has nothing at all to do with “doing”; it is an attribute of Being. Nor does Continuity refer to a need for things to be changeless. Quite the opposite, Continuity is that state we reach where we are able to witness all of Creation as a great system of continual flow and change without beginning or end. Existence is both always the same, and always changing, simultaneously. When we witness this, and feel this at our core, we come to realise that Reality is comprised of a single experience of Divine Continuity, which has infinite possibilities of expression. These possibilities flow like the colours of a kaleidoscope as we turn the wheel around and around. As these patterns are ever-changing, we cannot say there is ever truly a specific pattern, as there is no way to “freeze” them in time. When we release the need to hold on to a particular pattern, we begin to step into the awestruck feeling of Divine Continuity, and come to enjoy every moment as it unfolds before us.</p>
<p>It is often said that unhappiness comes in life when <span id="more-827"></span>we form attachments to these patterns. We see a flash of a particular pattern in life, and we want to hold onto it. We might be very fond of a person, place, activity, thing or idea. Or, we might equally dislike one of these things. Each of these things is a but a momentary flash in the unlimited possibilities within the Divine Continuity, but in our minds we form a “pattern” of what it is, that actually tries to limit it and resist its natural evolution. When someone ages, becomes ill or dies, we think they have changed. But in reality, their pattern was always in a state of change, and it was only our attachment to it that created the illusion that the pattern was permanent. In Sanskrit, this illusion is called maya, which means “to measure”. When we measure things, we limit them, and we view them as separate from both ourselves and from Divine Continuity. So, while our sorrow and feelings of loss can be said to be caused by our attachment to the pattern, the key affliction is that we have a sense of disconnection from the Divine. When that connection is re-established, unhappiness is not possible, as we are able to relish the continual dance of Divine Change within the Changeless, and take delight in all things that come our way—even the seemingly painful.</p>
<p>In The Garden of the Soul the Lily is the embodiment and the mentor of the attribute of Continuity. She shines like the point of a diamond in the centre of the Garden, radiating and reflecting a kaleidoscope of continual change that contains all possibilities. Continuity is the ultimate attribute of Divine Source, as it is that from which Creation, Sustenance and Evolution all occur simultaneously and eternally. Beginnings and endings are both nowhere and everywhere. When we release the need to hold on to anything, and begin to delight in all there is and whatever comes to us, we have stepped into our own Divine Continuity.</p>
<p><strong>Enquiries to cultivate this attribute</strong><br />
1. What to I hold on to that causes me pain?<br />
2. What do I see when I simply allow the kaleidoscope of change to happen?<br />
3. Who am I when I feel fully connected to Divine Continuity?<br />
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<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-5" style="float: left;" title="lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a" src="http://lynnserafinn.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a-150x150.jpg" alt="lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a" width="150" height="150" />I hope you liked this week&#8217;s Garden of the Soul Weekly Meditation. Read below to find you how you can help me write my next book, have your name mentioned on the radio, and have a chance to be mentioned in the book, under my acknowledgements.</p>
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<p><strong>ABOUT THIS COLLABORATIVE BOOK PROJECT</strong><br />
I am writing a &#8220;Companion Guide to the Garden of the Soul: 80 Daily/Weekly Practices to Allow Your Spirit to Blossom”. The book has 80 Daily (or Weekly) meditations to help to cultivate the spiritual attributes of the four flowers in the book. All 80 attributes are already “assigned” a number, but the entries for them have not necessarily been written yet.</p>
<p><strong>YOU CAN HELP ME WRITE MY BOOK!</strong><br />
1. Every Wednesday through Sunday, just send me a number from 1 – 80 that you pick intuitively.<br />
2. I will put all the numbers into a “hat” and chose one at random.<br />
3. I will publish the correlating “meditation” for that number on the following Friday.<br />
4. AND… if you number is selected, I will also read your name and your intuitively chosen meditation ON THE AIR on my weekly broadcast of “Lynn Serafinn’s Garden of the Soul” at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Lynn-Serafinn. Now that our show is 1 hour long, I have plenty of time for this. It’s just so much fun.<br />
5. AND…I will also mention every person whose number was selected in the &#8220;acknowledgements&#8221; section of my book when it is published!</p>
<p><strong>HOW DO YOU SEND ME YOUR NUMBER?</strong><br />
You can SEND me your number by:<br />
• Sending me a message on Facebook at <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LynnSerafinn" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/LynnSerafinn</a> OR<br />
• Posting it on the wall of my Fan Page at <a href="http://tinyurl.com/gots-fan" target="_blank">http://tinyurl.com/gots-fan</a> OR<br />
• Via Twitter at <a href="http://www.twitter.com/LynnSerafinn" target="_blank">http://www.twitter.com/LynnSerafinn</a> OR<br />
• Through my Ning group at <a href="http://gardenofthesoul.ning.com" target="_blank">http://gardenofthesoul.ning.com </a>OR<br />
• A comment on my blog at <a href="http://lynnserafinn.com" target="_blank">http://lynnserafinn.com </a>OR</p>
<p><strong>HOW DO YOU RECEIVE YOUR WEEKLY MEDITATION?</strong><br />
You can RECEIVE your weekly mediation by:<br />
• Subscribing to my blog at <a href="http://www.lynnserafinn.com" target="_blank">http://www.lynnserafinn.com</a> OR<br />
• Joining my Facebook group at <a href="http://tinyurl.com/fb-gots" target="_blank">http://tinyurl.com/fb-gots</a> OR<br />
• Joining my Facebook FAN page at: <a href="http://tinyurl.com/gots-fan" target="_blank">http://tinyurl.com/gots-fan</a> OR<br />
• Joining my Ning group at <a href="http://gardenofthesoul.ning.com" target="_blank">http://gardenofthesoul.ning.com</a> OR<br />
• Tuning in/downloading my weekly show at <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Lynn-Serafinn" target="_blank">http://www.blogtalkradio.com/Lynn-Serafinn </a></p>
<p><strong>SO FAR THE WEEKLY MEDITATIONS HAVE BEEN:</strong><br />
1. Day 75: Self-Awareness, selected by Kristina Berglund<br />
2. Day 11: Boldness, selected by Kate Parker<br />
3. Day 13: Vitality, selected by Callie Carling<br />
4. Day 48: Discovery, selected by Geoff Laughton<br />
5. Day 54: Rebirth, selected by Cindy Papale<br />
6. Day 45: Growth, selected by Jude Jennison<br />
7. Day 23: Elegance, selected by Callie Carling, Cindy Papale and Lynn Jaussi Rush<br />
8. Day 77: Continuity, selected by Shannon Jackson and Callie Carling<br />
9. Day ???: Coming next week! What does YOUR intuition tell you?</p>
<p>I look forward to receiving your intuitive number this week. <img src='http://lynnserafinn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>See you in the Garden!</p>
<p>Warm wishes,<br />
Lynn Serafinn<br />
Author of Amazon bestseller, The Garden of the Soul: lessons from four flowers that unearth the Self<br />
Main site: <a href="http://www.lynnserafinn.com" target="_blank">http://www.lynnserafinn.com</a></p>
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By Lynn Serafinn, MAED, CPCC
Author’s note: I originally wrote this article on 13 October 2008, but in light of the recent outbreak of “swine flu”, I thought it might be especially relevant. I also feel it can help us reflect upon what true “strength,” “wealth” and [...]]]></description>
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</em></strong><strong>By Lynn Serafinn, MAED, CPCC</strong></p>
<p><em><span style="color: #00ccff;">Author’s note: I originally wrote this article on <strong>13 October 2008,</strong> but in light of the recent outbreak of “swine flu”, I thought it might be especially relevant. I also feel it can help us reflect upon what true “strength,” “wealth” and “wellness” are, as well as what we consider to be “lucky” and “unlucky” in life</span>.</em></p>
<p>I am a workaholic. I don&#8217;t seem to stop. Ever. It isn&#8217;t funny. I even have made up a name for my workaholic &#8220;gremlin&#8221;. His name is Bonzo. Bonzo has a very loud voice. My intuition speaks more softly. When Bonzo shouts so loudly that I cannot hear the voice of my intuition (or I hear it but choose not to listen), the inevitable outcome is that I make myself ill.</p>
<p>A week ago Friday I was co-leading a very large event in London&#8230; a community day for about 70 life coaches from various parts of Europe. I had been working on it for 6 months with a team of 3 other great coaches. That day, the weather turned really cold and I knew that I was catching a chill but I kept going. The day was a great success, but it was an enormous amount of work, both over the past months and on the day itself. In the back of my mind, I could hear my body saying, <em>Slow down. Create some space for yourself.</em></p>
<p>On Saturday, the day AFTER the event, I presented at a wellness fair here in Bedford. It was a freezing cold day and they had the doors open all day during the event. I shivered all afternoon. I kept hearing my body screaming, &#8220;Slow down, woman!&#8221;</p>
<p>On Sunday, the day AFTER that, I walked half an hour in the pouring rain to meet up with a new business contact, and then later I had my daughter over my house for the night because she needed to talk and get some loving care. We were chatting until well after midnight.</p>
<p>In my head, all I could hear was, <em>Lynn, you keep saying you want to slow down. So, why are not stopping?</em></p>
<p>SO&#8230;<span id="more-823"></span></p>
<p>The day after THAT, which was last Monday, I woke up (surprise, surprise!) to find that I had come down with the flu. High fever, chills, aches, sore throat and really swollen glands. I felt like death warmed over. I couldn&#8217;t even get out of bed. At first I contemplated whether or not I had the energy to coach my clients (I had a full roster every day this week). Then, I realised that this was absolute insanity. I started calling my clients to cancel. All I had the energy to do was sleep. Because I live alone, and work for myself, my mind kept resisting the &#8220;down time&#8221; because I am used to taking care of myself and couldn&#8217;t see how I was going to pay the bills, do the shopping, etc.</p>
<p>But then, the most amazing thing happened. My clients, family and friends starting calling me, asking how they could help.</p>
<p>On Monday, one client (who sells Aloe Vera products) posted me a tube of Aloe Vera jelly for my throat and some bee propollus and Echinacea for my immune system.</p>
<p>On Tuesday, after receiving the parcel of Aloe Vera, another client (a homeopath) brought me some homeopathic medicine and took a deposit to the bank for me so my bills would get paid on time.</p>
<p>Later that day, another client (a Reiki practitioner) went shopping for me and brought me back loads of soup and juices which I spent several days guzzling down with great delight.</p>
<p>On Wednesday, my son-in-law went and got me some medicine for a massive headache I had had since Monday.</p>
<p>On Thursday, still another friend/client (a cranio-sacral therapist) came over to my house armed with apples, juices, macaroons (yummy) and toothpaste (I was completely out).</p>
<p>And as each person came with supplies, they also stayed for a chat and I felt better and better just for their presence. When I went to bed on Thursday night, I was astonished that in less than 4 days I felt about 80% recovered, whereas the previous flu I had had about a year before developed into lingering chest infection and cough that lasted 6 weeks.</p>
<p>I slept soundly, and when I woke up on Friday morning my flu was 95% gone (personally, I really do credit the Aloe Vera with curing my swollen glands).</p>
<p>I felt so good when I woke up Friday that I went into London to attend a course called “Awakened Wisdom” with one of my favourite mentors, Patrick Ryan. The course uplifted me that final 5% I needed to feel completely well again, and by Saturday morning I was 100% recovered. On Sunday, the last day of the course, I stood up in front of the class and made some very powerful commitments about becoming “visible” as a spiritual teacher through my writing and my work. Today, as I write this, I have to tell you that some of these commitments have already started to unfold. But beyond that, I not only feel completely restored in body, but the experiences of the past week have also healed my mind and heart as well.</p>
<p>A year ago, none of this would have happened. Why?</p>
<p>Two reasons:</p>
<p>The first reason is because a year ago, I didn’t know any of these people who came to help me (apart from my son-in-law of course). All of the local people who came to help me are people I met over the past 6 months through the <a href="http://www.global-wellness-circle.com">Global Wellness Circle </a>(GWC), which is an educationally focussed community project group dedicated to promoting a natural and holistic approach to health and well-being at all levels of mind, body and spirit. Sounds like a great organisation, yes? Well the best thing about GWC (for me) is that I myself started it in April (2008). I started GWC in response to the isolation I kept hearing so many other holistic therapists expressing, and which I also shared. I wanted to create a supportive community that would not only help us just grow our businesses, but also help us thrive as human beings with a common value base. It is extremely gratifying to find that this “Wellness Circle” provided me with a circle of people who helped me feel well when I was ill and overworked. I can only assume that this kind of behaviour is going on amongst other members of the Circle. It makes me more and more convinced that “Communities create wellness” (which is the motto of GWC).</p>
<p>But the other reason why none of this would have happened a year ago is because I myself am a very different person from who I was back then. A year ago I was in a state of mind where I felt I needed to support everyone else, but I would rarely (if ever) allow others to help me. I used to think this was because I didn&#8217;t want to &#8220;burden&#8221; others, but I now know this was simply a rationalisation. In truth, I believe the real reason why many of us do not ask for help is that it makes us feel vulnerable. We want people to see us as “strong” people, so we tend to hide what we judge as our own weaknesses. But actually, it is only we who judge ourselves to be weak. The truth is, it takes more strength and courage to show our vulnerability in public than to be stoic and alone. Quite opposite to how I used to think, I have learned that being vulnerable and asking for help is actually the bravest and most empowered thing we can do.</p>
<p>And here’s the surprise bonus—when we ask others for help, we actually empower <em>them</em> too<em>. </em>We allow them to give us their love, strength and wisdom. Just imagine if we lived in a world where nobody needed anyone else. We might falsely imagine such a place would be a world full of powerful people, but actually it would be a world full of lonely people who had no purpose to fulfil.</p>
<p>Allowing my vulnerability to guide me when I had the flu was a fantastic voyage of discovery, surprise and gratitude. So now, I am continuing to allow all the nurturing that exists around me to enter into my life&#8230; and I am really enjoying the ride.</p>
<p>This time of year, a lot of people get the flu. If you are one of the &#8220;lucky&#8221; ones, use the time to slow down and surrender to the process your body is craving. Then, dive deeply into the resources you have around you and ask for help from those around you. Always remember that we are actually giving a great gift when we allow others to show their love for us.</p>
<p>Anyway, that&#8217;s why getting the flu was the highlight of my week, and how much it made me aware of what real &#8220;health&#8221; (and wealth) in life is.</p>
<p>Lynn Serafinn<br />
13 Oct 2008</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5" title="lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a" src="http://lynnserafinn.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a-222x300.jpg" alt="lynn_serafinn_jan09-1a" width="111" height="150" align="left" />Lynn Serafinn, MAED, CPCC</strong> is a Transformation coach, inspirational speaker, workshop leader, talk radio show host and author of the Amazon bestseller <a href="http://www.give-receive-become-be.com/pages/bonus.html"><strong><em>The Garden of the Soul: lessons from four flowers that unearth the Self. </em></strong></a> Her coaching company, Create-a-Life, won the Best of Bedford Business Award in 2007. In addition, Lynn is the Founder and Leader of the <a href="http://www.global-wellness-circle.com/">Global Wellness Circle</a>, as well as Chair of Transition Bedford, a part of the greater Transition Network dedicated to helping educate and skill the global community to create a more sustainable, resilient and harmonious world.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">For more information about Lynn and her work, visit her web portal at <a href="http://www.lynnserafinn.com/">http://www.lynnserafinn.com</a> where you will find links to all her projects, as well as current special offers.  <strong> </strong></p>
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